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The Po' mans playground...... This is for those who contemplate the world around them and are afraid that only they can understand their logic. *** I felt I had to explain again the things that I post here. Then I thought about it and said “No, different strokes..., if you don’t get it, it’s not my problem”. It’s like a switch, there is a on and a off, you choose.

Sunday, December 17, 2006

Do you remember?




My two cents Worth….

How old are you when you stop having sex at the drop of the hat?
Is sex only good when you are young and in a new relationship that is exciting and spontaneous. I don’t think so. I think it has to do with the way you relate to each other and the situation at the time. Are you having the lunchtime quickies or the corporate nooners? If not, why not. Or are you to the point that sex is like a bodily function that you have to do only when necessary?

I have seen people having sex in the back seat of their car on the street out side of the club. (no, I was not peepin tommin). Have you ever been to the drive-in (for those that do not know (click here). They were the passion pits of America . plenty of baby boomers were conceived in the back seat of the family car.

In this politically correct society it is hard to be as free as you once use to. Like outside under the night sky, in the balcony of a theater, on a golf green under a full moon, just to name a few.

Do you remember when you were adventures and do you miss those times?

I don’t have answers all I have is questions.

Monday, December 11, 2006

THE 12 TYPES OF MEN1

THE 12 TYPES OF MEN1. MR. THUG LIFEAdvantagesa. Real good at making loveb. Fun and excitingc. Makes you laughd. Has your back, will fight and protect youDisadvantagesa. Usually drinks and smokes too muchb. Always got dramac. Stays a thug foreverd. In and out of jail2. MR. NAW, I DON`T HAVE A GIRLAdvantagesa. Will take you out in the beginningb. Will introduce you to all his friendsc. Compliments you all the timeDisadvantagesa. Has a girlfriend who he`s been with since the 2nd gradeb. Will not get rid of herc. He tells you about her after you`ve fallen in love with his *bleep*3. MR. BIG BALLAAdvantagesa. Will give you money with no questions askedb. Has a lot of style to himc. Will show you some of the nice things inlifeDisadvantagesa. Never returns your pagesb. Feels he can come to your house at any given time without calling firstc. Loves to be around his boys more than you.4 . MR. I`M IN THE INDUSTRYAdvantagesa. Can get you and your friends on the guest list at all the jumpin partiesb. Can have a decent stimulating conversationc. Tends to dress niceDisadvantagesa. You don`t know if he`s gay, straight or bib. Seems flighty when you speak of a solid commitmentc. You still have to wait in line to get in all the jumpin parties, then there is drama at the doord. All he has is a bunch of pictures with celebrities but he doesn`t know any of them personally5. MR. INTELLECTUALAdvantagesa. Book smartb. Cares about how you feelc. Has a very good jobDisadvantagesa. Boring as hellb. Doesn`t know what the hell he`s doin in bedc. He is not street smartd. Always asking you when can he see you again6. MR. GHETTOAdvantagesa. THE BOMB IN BED!!!!!b. Makes you laughc. Got mad style and flavad. Has a temper, but generally a charming sweet guye. Says he want a real relationshipDisadvantagesa. He got 3 or more baby mommasb. Wants to lay up in your crib, use the phone, and eat up all the foodc. Is in denial when you tell him about himselfd. Comes home at 3:00 am and says he was out with his boys7. MR. I`M A RIGHTEOUS BLACK MANAdvantagesa. Will teach you about black historyb. Revolutionaryc. Inspiring & gives to you spiritually & emotionallyd. Wants a wife and familyDisadvantagesa. Breaks up with you for a white girlb. No money-doesn`t have a jobc.Doesn`t own a nice suit, always wearing camouflage and oilsd. In the end, you find out he is just a trifling, con motha*bleep*a8. MR. TOO DAMN GOODAdvantagesa. Will introduce you to his motherb. Has a job and will take you outc. Will give you money for your bills if you need itd. Sometimes he goes to church on SundayDisadvantagesa. Sometimes he goes or church on Sundayb. Secretly wants to be Mr. Thug Lifec. Wears fake Movado & Rolex watches when he goes to the clubd. Ignores you when the game is on because he takes sports too serious -He didn`t make it professionallye.You find out after you break up with him that he was cheating on you9. MR. PLAYAAdvantagesa. Will tell you the truth - that you`re not the only oneb. Sometimes he`s fairly decent in bedc. He tells you that you`ve changed him and he`s ready to settle downd. Has his own apartment and car (invites you to move in with him)Disadvantagesa. He doesn`t acknowledge you in public, especially if there`s women aroundb. Generally he is a punk (won`t stand up for anything)c. He expects you to believe all his lies just because he told you the truth about other womend. After you catch his lyin` *bleep*, he tells you that he told you that he was a playa in the beginning anyway10. MR. I HAVE A JOBAdvantagesa. Of course.... he has a jobb. Doesn`t have too many bad habitsc. Will take care of you when you`re sickd. Tells you that he is in love with youDisadvantagesa. You stay in the relationship 2 years or more and then find out he`s a shiftless, lazy son-of-a-*bleep* who wants you to do all the wifely duties but won`t give you a ringb. He ends up telling you that he loves you, but is not "in love" with youc. After he leaves you he gets married a month later11. MR. BEST FRIENDAdvantagesa. He`s your best friend, you tell each other everything; you get along very, very wellb. He gives you advice when you andyour man are having problemsc. The ultimate gentlemand. Sweet and caring with a good sense of humorDisadvantagesa. You end up hooking up with him only to find he ain`t about *bleep* either!b. Now, you gotta find a new best friend because you can`t stand his *bleep* no more12. MR. RIGHTAdvantagesa.He loves God and takes his relationship with God seriouslyb. He is intellectual, brilliant, and capable of taking you there mentally and emotionallyc. He will love you even when you are not lovabled. He has a career and not a job!e. He acknowledges his faults and strives to be a better manf. He understands a relationship is built on a 200uota - 100im and 100oug. He doesn`t have a bunch of kids and babies mommas - he`s smarter than thath. He is a true best friend and everything you ever wanted in a mani. He was cute when you met him. But, after spending sometime you see he`s fine as hell!j. He can dress - knows the difference b/t formal, semi-formal, professional, business casual, casual, and since we are just chilling let me throw on some sweats and a fitted hath. He loves his mother and respects womenDisadvantagesa. You`ve never met him and if you did he already has a girl/wife.LADiES WHiCH TYPE DO U HAVE RiGHT NOW? 
 

Saturday, September 24, 2005

Breasts...breasts...breast

Breasts…breasts…breasts

There has got to be a reason that men and women love these two mounds of flesh upon a woman’s chest.  The most common misconception is from being breast fed as an infant. I think not, because not all babies were allowed to partake of the nectar provided by nature. It has also been said that it is envy, wanting what you can’t have without buying them.  Nope, I don’t think that is true either.

Let take a look back to the past and see what we can about breasts.  In the days of great artists, women were drawn nude and with small but perky breast.  Some of the artists wanted to make sure that their vision of women would be in keeping with the norm of the day.  Artist however always added a health posterior to their models. (Junk in the trunk)

Moving ahead to the early 20th century, women were still viewed by men to have thick asses, although they were just leaving the busell behind (pun intended). Then about the roaring twenties the dress of women changed and they were allowed to show more then an ankle. That is when legs became all the rage. Along with legs came the flappers, with little or no restraint on their breast other than a slip (sometimes). Women became freer and more brazen. Moving pictures were now popular and the depiction of sex was something that was considered again, the norm.
     
Then in the late thirties early forties...tada! Big beautiful Breasts became the model that was put on the screen for all to see.

The likes of Roseland Russell, Jane Mansfield, Ms Marylyn the full figure, fully rounded fine, up lift, cleavage, pillowy soft mounds of tempting flesh, just beckoning you to put your hand on them, or just smother your face into the bosoms of total ecstasy (oops back to the question at hand.).  Could it be the way that they move when they are covered and only the tops are prominently protruding above what ever restraints are holding them?  For the women with out the extra enhancements and more then a small hand full, they remind me of water balloons, or Jell-O. There is just no clear cut explanation for what it does to your imagination. Is it the cleavage or what appears to be soft flesh that attracts the eye?  Women have learned to attract your attention to their cleavage by wearing a necklace the points to the valley of heavenly pleasure. Or by wearing blouses that are revealing or so tight that you could see the pours on their chest. Either way, wear what you want to wear as long as you leave something to the imagination.

Okay let us get real. The breasts have one purpose. From previous experience I have enjoyed that purpose eminence. They grow up to 3 time their normal size; they become thicker, heavier and rounder. They make implants seem like sandbag. But alas it is only temporary. They had to revert to what they once were or worse, baggy but more sensitive, than yet not as attractive as before. That is why a lot of women with that extra money and low self-esteem have implants. Make her self more attractive for a man or to boost their image of themselves.

I remember when I was younger, a woman wore vee neck sweater all the time and I fell in pure lust for her cleavage. When I held a conversation with her I was talking to her cleavage, hoping that she would bend over for any reason just to look down her sweater. I know that I am not alone in this because there are website devoted to just that. Therefore I am in good company.

Shape and areola are key to what attracts you before the clothes comes off, her cleavage it the trigger then the skin. Nothing spoils great breasts in my opinion then the so called art of tattooing something silly like a flower, paw prints or the most asinine move yet the name of you current love. Lawd help you if you break up, then you would have to find someone with the same name or spend the mega bucks to have it removed.

Back to shape, we are only talking about natural breast, not the pumped up implants. Not that I don’t like implants but no matter what the possessors of implants say they just don’t move or feel the same. Depending on the way they were implanted the breast may be scared around the areola or underneath the breast. There are some that have their implants placed on top of the existing tissue, which show a layered look when the breasts are hanging as when on your hands and knees. This is not appealing, but is more appealing then the implants under the existing tissue. That is when in the same position as stated before looks like a … oh envision a snowman with only two ball, the big one (implant) and the head ball (the original). The top is gelatin like while the bottom is firm.

You know it is hard to play with nipple that will get hard and does not rise up enough to tweak or nibble; you know what I’m talking about. These nipples are normally found on large breasted women. Few if any women with smaller then 36’s (not based on any evidence just personal experience). Then there are the nipples that stick out no matter what, these are the kind that I enjoy spotting on TV, like Jennifer Aniston on Friends or two of the witches on Charmed, not Pipper, she is a prude. Breast and nipples are the reason Charmed has been on for 8 seasons with a fan base of male 18-39.

Then you have the movement of the breasts… slow motion of a running woman, aw hell, even walking like a lady, the sway from left to right and the up and down motion has an hypnotic affect and control over average red blooded male and the discerning female. Just imagine if she were topless. I know that it’s not healthy for a woman to have her breast bouncing around without a bra on but braless gets my vote.

Some natural breasts are larger than most peoples head. Now they are just as fine as the ones that are "A "cup. Because men have no control over the size of a woman’s breast with exception of the deep pocket man that want to build a woman, men are never satisfied with what they can get or already have.

Breasts are like therapy. Like the stress balls people use to calm their nerves. Don’t take it the wrong way, but there is no better feeling than the hardness of a nipple in the palm of ones hand, surrounded by the pliable smoothness of the breast beneath.

That old idea that the love of breast comes for suckling your mother tit may have merit but what of those that never had their mother’s tit?
Breasts are a phenomenon with not explanation and there never will be, but as for me from itsy bitty tits to Al Bunde’s Big gunns, as long as the come on a real woman be them real or manufactured, I will love them all just the same.

You know the way to shut a man up don’t you?

               Stick something in his mouth.      

                    If you have to could you spare just one?
    

The similarity between Chess and Relationships

Though Chess was invented some time ago (BC), so to were relationships. You could say that it all started with Adam and Eve, the Chess Game of Life.

There are many similarities. You have your King and your Queen, they control the whole shebang. As in chess the King is the target for everyone to go gunning after and the Queen is the most powerful piece. Same as relationships the woman has the power and control to vanquish any piece (man/woman) in her path if she so wishes. I attribute this to the forbidden fruit.

The tree of knowledge, was where the King (man), who started out late in the game, because Eve got a taste of the fruit before Adam giving her a head start on being smarter. It’s like being a twin, you were both born the same day but you came out first and therefore you are the oldest period.

In chess the king is blocked in and has nowhere to move unless given the opportunity. Although the same is true for the queen, once given one space she can run the whole board, she has 8 directions she can go. (Free reign). The poor king can only move one space at a time, unless he can castle (“cheating” to men). See, if a man cheats he gets maybe just maybe one time to ease out of the situation. Than as a rule if you are in check once during the game before you castle, you are not able to castle in the future, ergo… you have lost your cheater’s pass before you even get a chance to use it.

Men use lies (pawns), deception (knights) to advance their game for defense. Men don’t have much of an offense and their defense is some what lacking. It takes a queen to provide the needed offense and defense to protect the (king). The queen on the other hand has her girlz (bishops), home (rooks), but because she is smarter and able to manipulate most any situation, she can turn the knights and the pawns into loyal subjects.

Let me explain a little more clearly. When a man is not living right, his first move it to lie. Although lying is not going to make matters better, they will help to fend off the initial assault on his integrity. He will wipe his brow and know that he just dodged a bullet.

If in fact the pawns don’t work as well as expected, the knights (friends, dawgs, etc) block the way and try to fend off the advancing onslaught. In most cases this defense works for oh…about a…lets say….2% of the time. But it is still a defense that is used.

Women, on the other hand use the same pieces and can cause untold havoc. Queens can lure you in, like a spider. Just when you know you have her right where you want her, you get blindsided by one of her girlz that was laying in the cut and off you go, on to the growing heap of broken bones and twisted flesh of the other failed attempts to conquer the unobtainable queen.

Sometimes the Rook is the most important peace on the board because it only has 2 directions in which to move, the same with the Home. The Queen can make a house a home or just plain HELL. All of which is at her whim.

This is just an overview of the similarities. In relationship as in chess there is but one truth, working together enables you to conquer any obstacle. Use her wisely and maybe you won’t have to lie down in defeat prematurely.    

Monday, March 14, 2005


Riverfront Park, site of the 1974 World's Fair
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Riverfront Park, site of the 1974 World's Fair (c)ATWP
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Calvin Keys Jazz on the Green 2002 (c)ATWP Posted by Hello


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Tuesday, February 15, 2005

Seven Second to Purity

I remember (hold on it’s time for the way-back machine) back in the 70’s, for those of you that hadn’t been born yet, about 30 or so years ago. The radio would put in a delay to keep live callers for using words like Bit*h, Sh*t, azz, g*dda*mit, the famous “F” word and the still popular “N” word. All because society felt that these words are or were not used by proper society. They were not thinking about the kids then, they were thinking about the Bible belt, the Jerry Farwell’s, Oral Roberts’ and Jim Bakers. Are these names foreign to you? Look them up in Google.

The FCC had little to do with what was said on radio or television because, there was a morel code in place and the networks policed their own products. If a movie was on TV it would have been screened and edited for any offensive language and glimpses of flesh that may have been in them. Kind of like the James Bond movies, did you notice that the only nudity was in the opening credits and you had to look real real hard to see anything.

Take the everlasting Soap Operas. They use to have standards. You would have only heard “You Witch!” not the newly allowed words Bit*h. Now, I do remember watching All My Children, just to see Judith Light (before she met Tony Danza) playing a “prostitute” (the oldest profession) Thick! Or one life to live, with the no bra wearing Tina, she always got her points across (oYo). And last but not least General Hospital with Hookers turn respectable Nurses, Housewives turn Sluts and people having sex on the living room floor and getting up and walking out without cleaning themselves up. (And it was her house) Heather Weber, had more turns then a doorknob.

There weren’t any outburst of outraged parents then. Why because the moral fabric of this country has been reined in by the religious minority. Yes I said it, if they were the majority, then why are there so many strip club, adult book stores, liquor stores, dope smokers, hookers and johns, prisoners, adult websites, not to mention politicians. I could go on but you get the idea. I’m sorry but most of the a fore mentioned people are parents…ooops!

Now back to the seven seconds. Just because Damita Jo (Janet Jackson), had her “wardrobe malfunction”. The country was beating down the FCC’s door with complaints. Remember that these are the same people that grew up with or as hippies, the free love generation, sex, drugs, and rock & roll. It seem to me that the people doing all of the complaining are the same people that want to tell everyone else what they are to see, hear, or do. Take the V-chip, why is a V-chip needed? When I was growing up the only thing required to keep me from looking at something that was deemed inappropriate (the Tonight Show), was my mother telling me not to look at it (not withstanding the threat of corporal punishment if I failed to do as she said} and I am not talking about “Time Out”. WTF?, what idiot came up with this crap?) or not to look at TV all together. But since my time growing up, parents have changed, government has changed, this country as a whole has changed.

The V-chip is another techie piece of equipment that parents can’t work. All you have to do is look at the VCR 12:00…12:00…12:00. if your kids don’t set the time, you will be lost.

Children growing up 30 to 50 years ago have decided that their parents were inept at rising children. Even though their parents tried to make ensure that their children received the best of everything, it only left the children thinking that they were/are superior. Know- it- alls.

Again, back to the seven seconds. I don’t see any thing wrong with the seven seconds, if it is used for the purpose it is intended. Some people take advantage of opportunity every chance the get, i.e. “Super Bowl commercials”. I don’t know if it is true but I heard that the NFL got slammed for allowing the Go Daddy slot on, because it was suppose to be in bad taste. WTF, it was clever and very well staged. (The second part of the commercial was banned. www.ifilm.com for the clips that did not make the game.) It was aired on television at least 4 days before the Super bowl. Therefore no one had any excuse for it slipping past the decency police. BTW I intend to register my web sit through them because of the commercial. (Not the girl, the $8.95).

Any way watch the Oscar’s and enjoy the act. Did you hear that some people want pull Cris Rock from being the host, because he said that the Oscar’s are just a fashion show, and that no straight male would want to set through the whole thing, especially since he says he never has.

Let’s just wait for the fallout from that at the show and see what he has to say. (this should be fun).

Top Ten Questions I Need Answered about Blogs

  1. WTF is with knitting?
  2. Why do people start Blogs with “this is my first blog” (THE END). Then no new update for 6 months?
  3. How did election go from ballot boxes to blogs?
  4. What is with the businesses that are looking for cheap advertising (hit or miss your consumer) ????
  5. Why is it that, people (mostly women) talk about their day, starting before the crack of dawn until after midnight, but are writing blog entries around 3:00 am, instead of getting that much needed sleep?
  6. Why do students proudly boast of their exploits of the night before; drinking and gallivanting until 10 minutes before their morning Applied Calculus class, but instead of studying, their writing blogs?
  7. Why are so many blogs written sooooooo small?
  8. Is it me… or does almostly everyone have a boring life? i.e. My boring life, My life is boring, or I don’t have anything to say because my life is so boring (see question #2)
  9. Why is it that…People with MBA’s, PHD’s etc are all out of work and drunk, but sill have time to blog about how miserable they are?
  10. Why is it that…. You are really reading this? (see question #8)



    All views expressed are the responsibility or the person that showed me the meaning of BLOGGING.

Friday, February 11, 2005

%

No, that was not a mistake. % is the language the government uses in the Budget, when it does not what to use the true dollar amount i.e. $1 with seven or eight zeros behind it. It’s like…. 19.99 instead of $20.00.

-$999,000,000

No Sugar, Salt, Sex, Alcohol, Running, Shoveling, Driving, SMOKING……part 1

Weyco, has determined that it has the power to make its employees do what they tell them, even away from work.

For those of you that don’t know, Weyco has informed its employees, that they are subject to termination if they do not quit smoking. Not only are they to not smoke at or on company grounds but in their own homes as well. (Now ain’t that a bit*h)

The reason for this radical move by this company is their health insurance and the loss of productive of its workers. Apparently, too many of its workers have cancer or some sort of medical condition related to smoking. Therefore, for example, if you do not smoke, you will not miss work because you broke you leg while smoking a butt when walking across the street and getting hit by a Mack truck!. Or you will not need a 10 minute break, three times a day to go outside in –zero degree weather, to get away for the pinheads that have been stressing you all day. Those are just a few examples of lost productive.

The next thing they will add to the terms of employment will be Alcohol…. Oops…I must have forgotten Alcohol is Legal too! As you can see if they start with smoking what will be next. Security at the door every morning with one of those order detecting machines… you walk thru the door and it goes off just like the thief alarms in department stores.

You thought that random drug test were a pain. What would happen if you went to a restaurant where people are allow to smoke in there section (another rare breed) and you get to work smelling like smoke…. OOOO! “Smith report to the company nurse!”

Wednesday, February 09, 2005

24 ooops!

Now I have been watching 24 from the beginning. I have been thoroughly involved in every soap operatic twists and turns. The last minute cliffhangers are great. The technology used in the show is amazing. If there is technology out there that could work as quickly and efficiently as on the show, we would have the WAR ON TERROR on the run.

But, I know that we don’t and there are no quick and easy solutions for any of the problems that we have to deal with at this time. However, I’m I wrong, but is the CTU the most infiltrated organization in the “TV” government?

Every traitor has been in the CTU and every one of them has used Cell Phones to communicate with their comrades. Right or Wrong? I know that I am right. So with all of the technology available to them, why is it that there is not way to monitor or to jam all unauthorized signals from within this one compound?

By the way… Doesn’t everyone working at the CTU have to have Ultra Top Secret Clearance? Which means that there has to be a background check. When I received my clearance while in the Army, it took them 16 months to clear my background.

I know that this is only entertainment and it is only suppose to hold our attention to suspend our belief in reality for 1 hour at a time. But come on now, don't over look the obvious. If you can read a match book from 30 miles high, you should be able to detect cell phones transmission for your secure facility.

Again

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